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13 Undeniable Signs Your Cat Has Chosen You As Their Favorite

13 Undeniable Signs Your Cat Has Chosen You As Their Favorite

Have you ever noticed how cats tend to have that one person they like the most and always go to first?

The funny thing is that they often favor that one person who didn’t want them in the first place. It is like they know and make it their mission to change their minds and win them over!

When cats imprint, they choose their favorite human and spend most of their time giving their full attention and love to them.

Are you wondering if your cat has imprinted on you? Or why do cats imprint on someone? Then you are in the right place because this article will provide you with a list of foolproof signs your cat has imprinted on you!

1. Your Cat Follows You Everywhere

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One of the best signs that a cat has imprinted on you is when it follows you around everywhere! No matter where you try to go, your cat will want to be near you.

If you have noticed that your cat is following you to the kitchen, bedroom, and even into the bathroom, there is a great chance that you are your cat’s favorite person.

Kittens usually follow their mothers around because foremost they want to learn how to behave from them, but also because they feel secure and protected in her presence.

Your kittens might follow you around because they feel safe when they are around you. This behavior may continue even when your kitten has grown up because by then your furry friend has made a deep connection with you.

They just want to be around you, to show you that they love you; in your cat’s mind this is the best way of showing you their affection.

2. Your Cat Rubs Against You

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Cats love to show their love by rubbing against you. They may rub you with their whole body or just their heads (forehead, cheeks, or chins) rubbing against your legs.

Rubbing or headbutting in a cat’s world are signs of marking territory, greeting, adoration, and acceptance.

If they greet you with headbutts, it means that they are so happy to see you, especially if you have been away for a long time.

Also, when a cat rubs against you, it is marking you as their territory. When they rub, they leave their scent and pheromones (chemicals released from special glands on their body) on you, this is their way of claiming you and acts as a signal to other cats that you are theirs.

As their scent does not last long on you, they will try to put it there time and time again, which is why they will rub against you every time they see you.

3. Your Cat Treats You Like A Cat

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In the world of cats, grooming is another of the signs of love, and affection.

Cats groom each other when they have developed a strong connection between them. Kittens are usually groomed by their mothers as a sign of love and caring.

When a cat starts licking you and grooming you in the same way they do to themselves, it means that they have accepted you as their family and you are one of their favorite people.

You might be weirded out by your cat trying to groom you at first, but just remember that they are trying to show you that they love you in their own little way.

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You may have noticed that sometimes your cat looks at you lovingly and then blinks really slowly. This is considered by some people to be a cat’s way of saying ‘I love you’ to you.

Slow blinks are a clear sign of a cat’s bond with you; it proves that they feel confident and loved in your company.

You can also try to mimic this by slow blinking, and your cat may just understand what you mean.

5. Your Cat Shows Its Belly

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Most cats are very sensitive and protective of their belly. They usually don’t like to be touched there and if you try, they will probably defend themselves by attacking you.

So, when cats are lying on their back or rolling in front of you and exposing their belly, it means that they feel safe and comfortable around you.

This means they are not worried about being attacked and are comfortable enough to expose one of their most vulnerable body parts to you.

It can also be an invitation for you to play with them…

6. Your Cat is Kneading

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Kneading is the rhythmic action of pushing the front paws in and out against different kinds of surfaces.

Kittens knead on their mothers so that milk can be released, but adult cats use kneading as a means of getting closer to their owners.

Kneading is also known as “making biscuits” in the internet community because the action of a cat’s kneading reminds people of the way humans knead dough when they are preparing cookies for baking.

This is a cat’s instinctive reaction, and they might also try to perform the kneading action on your skin, so beware of those claws!

This is a strong sign of imprinting and shows that your cat is happy, and feels comfortable and relaxed around you.

7. Your Cat Has A Question Mark Tail

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A cat can also express feelings and moods through its tail. The position of a cat’s tail can mean different things.

For example, if a cat’s tail takes the shape of a question mark, your feline friend is in a playful mood. They are happy to see you and want to encourage you to play with them.

This is also a clear sign of affection because cats will play only with people that they really like and trust.

8. Your Cat Chirps

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Felines communicate mostly through meowing and body language. Chirping is also one of their ways to communicate their feelings. Not all cats chirp but it can be an indicator of affection.

Chirping is a quick, continuous, and quiet bird-like sound that cats make to express affection and happiness. They can also use it to attract your attention and as a way of greeting.

9. Your Cat is Purring

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I am sure that all cat owners love the sound of a cat purring. Apart from being really cute, a cat’s purring is one of the tell-tale signs your cat has imprinted on you.

Kittens learn to purr very early on when they are around 2-3 days old, this is thought to be a tactic to reassure their mother cat that they are safe. So, if a cat purrs around you, it is likely because they feel safe.

By doing this, the cat shows you affection and love.

Undoubtedly, the cat’s purrs are the most reassuring sign that the cat feels calm, content, and safe in your presence.

A cat’s purrs are also said to have a positive impact on human health too; it is believed to lower stress and blood pressure and help people cope with illness.

10. Your Cat Gives You Love Bites

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Many cat owners might be confused as to why, all of a sudden, their cat is biting them when just a second ago they were cuddling and happily purring.

These small bites are often called love bites. The cat has no intention of hurting you but rather this action expresses their love and affection.

11. Your Cat Loves Cuddling

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Cats certainly won’t cuddle with a person they don’t like.

So, if a cat is willingly coming to cuddle you, this is a sure sign that your feline friend has imprinted on you, and you just might be their favorite human.

12. Your Cat Brings You “Presents”

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Cats are natural hunters, and one of the ways they show affection or loyalty is by bringing their prized “captures” to their favorite human.

Whether it’s a toy, a random household item, or even an unfortunate bug or small creature, this behavior signifies trust and care. Your cat sees you as part of its “family” and wants to share its achievements or provide for you in the way they know best.

13. Your Cat Sleeps Near You (Or On You)

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Cats are highly selective about where they sleep, prioritizing safety and comfort. If your cat regularly curls up on your lap, beside you, or even directly on your chest, it’s a strong indication of their trust and affection.

By choosing you as their preferred nap spot, they’re signaling that they feel completely safe in your presence.